August 2024 – Page 2 – FIRST DATE, WORST DATE EVER!

My Two Gophers

August 12, 2024August 11, 2024 Posted in beach, birdfeeder, birds, California, contractor, Coronavirus, Covid 19, cows, gophers, Iowa, memoir, squirrelsLeave a comment

(re-run) Now before you tell me that gophers are solitary creatures and that I only have one gopher, let me explain that I have a little beach house with a gopher and my regular house with a gopher. I am an Iowa girl, living in California. So both houses were bought because of the property… Continue reading My Two Gophers

Off the Grid

August 8, 2024August 7, 2024 Posted in alcoho, alcohol, Beatles, chorus, dancing, Facebook, Father's Day, GERD, girl friends, memoir, power, power company, power outage, retirement, socializing, stomach issues, widowers, wineryLeave a comment

(re-run) The power went out. I was in the middle of a movie when everything shut off. Soon my neighbors were texting me, asking me to report the outage to PG& E. The more the better, they said. A few minutes after that, I received a robocall. The outage was affecting 5000 customers. The power… Continue reading Off the Grid

Arguing on Facebook About Immigrants

August 7, 2024August 6, 2024 Posted in asylum, Facebook, immigrants, immigration, memoirLeave a comment

(partial exchange – my daughter says why bother, Mom?) Doug I know I know some of them are good people, but they need to do it the right way the human traffickers and drug dealers so you’re saying that’s OK Enter You sent somewhere in your family tree there are immigrants or you wouldn’t be… Continue reading Arguing on Facebook About Immigrants

Smooth Operator

August 5, 2024August 4, 2024 Posted in dancing, humor, memoir, relationships, worstsLeave a comment

(re-run) His name was Ryan, and he wore the brightest shirts – screaming teal, bullfighter red, and obnoxious orange. It was easy to pick him out of the crowd. He was a dancer at the Thursday night venues and would come find me each night for one dance. “I just want you to know,” he’d… Continue reading Smooth Operator

Computer Date

August 4, 2024August 3, 2024 Posted in college, computer dating, dating, firsts, getting dumped, relationshipsLeave a comment

(re-run) The idea for computer dating has been around as long as computers for personal use have been. Carolyn should know! In 1965 (yes, in the Dark Ages) she had her first and last computer match. In those days one filled out a computer punch card, the data was computed, and the results took a… Continue reading Computer Date

Under Pressure

August 3, 2024August 3, 2024 Posted in aging, aging gracefully, Costco, COVID, memoir, tires. Toyota, runaroundLeave a comment

My driver’s side back tire kept losing pressure. The tire pressure light would come on, I’d find a gas station, put in my $2.00 worth of quarters and get air for all my tires. Up, down, up, down, up down up down. Then back around to put the little caps back on the tires. The… Continue reading Under Pressure

Say What in Santa Cruz

August 2, 2024August 1, 2024 Posted in California, college, dating, friends, helpful strangers, high school, marriage proposal, relationships, Santa Cruz, siblings, vacationLeave a comment

(re-run) Jennifer met Brad at San Leandro High school in the Bay Area. She wasn’t allowed to date, but she was allowed to go to junior prom. The next year Brad asked Jennifer to Senior Ball. It was in San Francisco, and afterward, they went to Pier 39 with everyone else in their limo. Brad… Continue reading Say What in Santa Cruz